YOU ! Yes I am talking to you ! Why aren’t you happy in life?
Yes I am talking to you!
Why aren’t you happy in life?
What is your worry?
Do you think you have everything in life?
Or are you craving for something?
Do you know what you want or it is all just empty? You want something, but you do not know what!
What is it that you have to do to be at peace?
Are you waiting for something to happen? Somebody else to take a step for you?
Why are you feeling empty from inside? Like numb. Not feeling for anything!
Why do you feel all alone even with the best of your people around?
You have been away from home since a while! Have you thought why did you leave your home in the first place? Are you satisfied that you have achieved your purpose or sad that you have been away from your family all these days?
All this money, facilities, technology, is it helping you in anyway? Do you think you need it or is it just a farce of the modern day?
Are you happy with your job?
Are you happy with your progress?
You have all your everyday plans in place perfectly, but at the end of the day, are you satisfied that you could achieve some of it or more depressed that you did not achieve all of it?
What is it that you are looking for in life?
Now, this moment, can you feel the happiness or magic hidden in it? NO ! Magic is overrated, right?.
Yes, you are away from your home, away from your friends in a new world with newer people.
Yes you have mountains of problems on your head that cannot be solved!
You are trying to figure out things everyday and it seems like an endless journey.
You are running so fast that nothing seems to slow your head down apart from weed.
Life is so busy and you are racing with it! You never have time to stop and think! This line was more suited for the books, but slowly it is getting real. Isn’t it?
All these questions in your mind seem futile in the race to become bigger and better! You feel you are over thinking! But silently these are the thoughts that are mounting up your pressure! Leading to all your health problems, “not-getting-along-with-anyone” problems, depression, frustration, no progress and “happiness is lost” problems.
After all these years of hard work and effort, you are confused. You don’t know how your life will turn out. You worry more about yourself, your health, about your loved ones and their happiness. You seem to be lacking that confidence that you thought you would have after all the work you did. Right now you are more alone than ever, in every possible sense!
But I want you to know something. Yes, I am talking to you. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Look around you! Almost everyone is fighting their battles like you, equally worried and confused, equally struggling and figuring out things! Reach out to them, know all of theirs and tell them your all. That helps! But you know what? I know you feel you are strong and independent and shouldn’t whine about your problems. I also know you have trust issues! You cannot speak up to anyone easily. For such people, I have something to say. If you cannot then don’t. But just remember that the battle has just begun. AND you are very strong. Life is a long journey and this is just a tiny little time-patch in it!! It is not here to stay but to teach you something valuable before it leaves you!
There is only one thing that may help you – You need to stop! Right now! Sit down for a minute. Visualize your life from when you were a baby and realize that you have come so far with and without so many people. You have fought with problems before in your life and with great confidence! You need to remind yourself of all the little things that you have overcome to stand tall today! Just stop for a second, calm yourself down, think about what is happening and what you would like to change! Once you decide to change things, then set some fucking awesome goals and smash the shit out of them! That’s one step closer. And happiness is just a step away !!! Best days and wishes are just around the corner, waiting for YOU!
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